while your general point is valid, the problem with simulations and estimates is that they have some severe caveats.
The most significant is that modernity comes with immense demands on reliability and capacity. The solar estimates are based on averages. There will absolutely be times when your solar and battery system runs out of power. What then? What if you decide to buy an EV? Can you depend solely on solar?
You cannot replace the grid, no matter what the simulations tell you. The whole reason the electricity grid was created in the first place was to solve problems of local resource constraints.