To up keep your home! You also pretty much up keep your rented home too. And at the end you spend to maintain other people's home.
>>Is that really how you want to spend some part of your me-time?
Most of the times its not that bad, you talk like you are on-call 24x7 throughout the year.
>>You are also locking yourself down at very specific place which may be a craphole in a decade, without good jobs around etc.
That's called stability, and that brings wealth and happiness. Honestly people look down upon these things, people use wrong words(lifer, coaster etc) to put down stability. In reality stability, with a predictable schedule is one of the best things that you do to your health, and overall life stability/happiness.
>>Also it will in normal cases vacuum your savings, degrading quality and fun in life in (at least) initial years after purchase - those are often the best years of one's remaining life.
This is mostly an assumption, in my experience the exact opposite is true.
>>People tend to look back with rosy glasses on the past, highlighting positives and shrinking negatives, thats basic psychology of each of us. Looking back at period of ownership people mostly look at money made, not all that stress and time with just keeping some property in same state.
Its always a bad idea to make any investment today, and you feel deep regret to have not made an investment 20 years back. Im not talking about real estate in specific, but even things like education, or exercise, look pointless and something you can do without today, but you wish you had done more or atleast started decades back.
>>Middle grounds are apartments, very little maintenance compared to house&land, much lower costs, but also less privacy and less feeling of 'in my own'.
You don't even own walls in a apartment, its like the worst of all the worlds.
