Plus if Russia wins, its appetite will only grow, and another war is just a matter of time.
The plan so far has not worked.
Up to now, Ukraine has never received the support it would need to win, just enough not to lose. Weapons deliveries been too little, too late, making the war longer and bloodier than it needs to be. In the meantime domestic production has increased to the point Ukraine covers 30% of its needs.
Russia has lost other wars, it can and should lose this one.
And what does "loss" even look like? Are you genuinely proposing they will simply pack up and head home from all captured territory?
This can be done with very little US funding. And sharing intelligence with Ukraine literally costs us nothing.