well, the first one just doesn't leave any chance for any other one.
>Life might be very common, but intelligent life still be incrediblY rare.
the time period between big ape and nuclear bomb is extremely short - few millions years. In a hundred or a thousand - doesn't really matter - years we'll be an interstellar species or may be we destroy ourselves by Covid-2319. The point is that complexity develops exponentially and tremendous changes are happening in an extremely a short period of time - i.e. if life has 4B years to develop when it most probably has 4.01B years to develop civilization.