What is this "our community"? My releasing something under the MIT license doesn't mean I'm part of whatever community you're invoking. It means I'm releasing something with an MIT license. That's it.

I certainly don't want to give companies like MS a "pause" before they decide to fork my project. I'm explicitly telling them they can do that. I absolutely do not want them to be hampered by notions of "What will this action look like?"

Don't impose your values on other people's use of my software.