> not because they misunderstand the purpose of the site, but because of the unkindness and nonsensical nature of the moderation.
I have read countless examples of this sort of thing, with people attesting to me that the people who wrote it do in fact understand the purpose of the site.
I have yet to see a single example where I was convinced they actually did.
They very frequently write in terms that imply complete ignorance of fundamentals (such as what a "moderator" is, and who has what privileges and responsibilities on the site).
> You are aware of the "popular art form" reporting these experiences - those with empathy pay attention to it.
I have paid attention. I have done close reading. I have been empathetic. I have spent many hours of my life on this.
> It's a bit like driving a car off a cliff because there's a post-it note on the wheel that describes that purpose of the car as to go inexorably in this one cardinal direction.
Your implication is that the purpose I describe for Stack Overflow is somehow invalid.
I disagree in the strongest possible terms, and find this implication actually offensive.
But even if it weren't valid, that doesn't entitle other people to come in and try to change it. It didn't entitle them in 2008, either, even though the vision wasn't fully fleshed out and communicated yet. (It probably started to become clear around 2012, but still not in a way that allowed curators to coordinate and describe clear policy.)