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0 pointszellyn9mo ago0 comments

This happened to me during the pandemic. High (insupportable) stress, plus a year or two of significantly too little sleep, plus social isolation.

It was terrifying. I had just seen my mom taken by Alzheimer’s (or something similar) way too young, and thought my life was over.

All the tests coming back negative, making a point of hanging out with friends, returning to the office, and getting enough sleep seemed to help, and it slowly started getting better.

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bluefirebrand9mo ago

I am somewhat the opposite. The pandemic was great for me. Being able to work remotely is wonderful. Much less stressful than commuting daily, more free time, less scrutiny during work hours and I don't live alone so staying home isn't isolating

I definitely do need to spend more time out of the house with friends and such though

Most of my current stress is due to AI fears, layoffs looming, uncertain about the future job market for my skills, and such. Definitely too little sleep

I think I'm too young for Alzheimer's to be a serious concern but it does run in the family so it might be worth asking my doctor about it. I hadn't thought of that

I really do think that it's mostly a combination of my company having like 6 rounds of layoffs in the last couple of years, plus them turning up the pressure to use AI as a daily driver now.

I've been trying but I just cannot get the productivity out of it that other people are claiming. Makes me feel obsolete

Edit: I also can't really wrap my head around my coworkers who are gleefully embracing AI tools after watching the company cut literally half of our development team over the past couple of years.

It makes me feel like I'm watching chickens sharpen the farmer's axe

zellynOP9mo ago

I think sleep is possibly the most important part. I also did a sleep study and started using a CPAP machine: might want to look into that if it’s a possibility…

bluefirebrand9mo ago

I do have one already and it helps a great deal for getting good sleep when I can

But it does not help me get to sleep in the first place unfortunately. Too much anxiety

I appreciate the suggestion though and if anyone else struggles to sleep, wakes up randomly out of breath, I do strongly recommend a cpap. It is great for me when I actually can sleep

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0 pointszellyn9mo ago0 comments

This happened to me during the pandemic. High (insupportable) stress, plus a year or two of significantly too little sleep, plus social isolation.

It was terrifying. I had just seen my mom taken by Alzheimer’s (or something similar) way too young, and thought my life was over.

All the tests coming back negative, making a point of hanging out with friends, returning to the office, and getting enough sleep seemed to help, and it slowly started getting better.

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bluefirebrand9mo ago

I definitely do need to spend more time out of the house with friends and such though

Most of my current stress is due to AI fears, layoffs looming, uncertain about the future job market for my skills, and such. Definitely too little sleep

I think I'm too young for Alzheimer's to be a serious concern but it does run in the family so it might be worth asking my doctor about it. I hadn't thought of that

I really do think that it's mostly a combination of my company having like 6 rounds of layoffs in the last couple of years, plus them turning up the pressure to use AI as a daily driver now.

I've been trying but I just cannot get the productivity out of it that other people are claiming. Makes me feel obsolete

Edit: I also can't really wrap my head around my coworkers who are gleefully embracing AI tools after watching the company cut literally half of our development team over the past couple of years.

It makes me feel like I'm watching chickens sharpen the farmer's axe

zellynOP9mo ago

I think sleep is possibly the most important part. I also did a sleep study and started using a CPAP machine: might want to look into that if it’s a possibility…

bluefirebrand9mo ago

I do have one already and it helps a great deal for getting good sleep when I can

But it does not help me get to sleep in the first place unfortunately. Too much anxiety

I appreciate the suggestion though and if anyone else struggles to sleep, wakes up randomly out of breath, I do strongly recommend a cpap. It is great for me when I actually can sleep

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