Sounds like awfully convenient motivated reasoning.
Split up any and all monopolies, and nationalize what should provide a common good such as payment networks and internet infrastructure.
Yes, society has deemed that it’s fine to make use of the avenues that have been explicitly created to reduce your tax burden - that’s why they were created. Society is also relatively fine with using unintended loopholes for the same purpose (although it is a lot more controversial and criticized), because we don’t tend to punish people for breaking laws, rules and regulations that don’t exist. When we end up caring a lot about them, we plug the gaps
The other person was talking about straight up not paying for goods and services that are sold at a given price, which is stealing. The more apt comparison would be to tax evasion (actually breaking the law), which is a crime, widely considered wrong and punished accordingly
You only use this argument for Youtube content creators because it's trivial to avoid payment and then backsplain it with unique moral justifications.