Unless your running cheap consumer NVME drives, that is not a issue on Enterprise SSD/NVMEs as they have their own capacitors to ensure data is always written.
On cheaper NVME drives, your point is valid. But we also need to add, how much at risk are you. What is the chance of a system doing funky issues, that you just happened to send X amount of confirm requests to clients, with data that never got written.
For specific companies, they will not cheap out and spend tons of enterprise level of hardware. But for the rest of us? I mean, have you seen the German Hetzner, where 97% of their hardware is mostly consumer level hardware. Yes, there is a risk, but nobody complains about that risk.
And frankly, everything can be a risk if you think about it. I have had EXT3 partition's corrupt on a production DB server. That is why you have replication and backups ;)
TiDB, or was it another distributed DB is also not consistency guaranteed, if i remember correctly. They give for performance eventual consistency.