Do you live in an urban USA area?
Edit: never work again doesn't have to be the goal, 2-3mil in the bank, everything paid off. I can get a job writing low stress Haskell and rust or something pointless and still make Sr eng money, like a measly 200k lol
It's not black and white, front loading some stress in early career can really change life trajectories, even if it's not a long term lifestyle thing.
I am working a high stress job (that I quite enjoy) at a FAANG company, and i've made enough money here that I could take a much lower paying job at any point and not need to worry about saving for retirement or paying for kids colleges. It's not retire now rich by any means, but it's definitely alleviating some financial worries I used to have.
So really if you save half your money, you are only saving $125k per year.
You take home more like $325k+. Assuming we're talking MFJ with a family
$5M to $10M should provide sufficient passive income, even in coastal California.