You're not the only stakeholder in any of those interactions. There's you, a mediator (search or LLM), and the website owner.
The website owner (or its users) basically do all the work and provide all the value. They produce the content and carry the costs and risks.
The pre-LLM "deal" was that at least some traffic was sent their way, which helps with reach and attempts at monetization. This too is largely a broken and asymmetrical deal where the search engine holds all the cards but it's better than nothing.
A full LLM model that no longer sends traffic to websites means there's zero incentive to have a website in the first place, or it is encouraged to put it behind a login.
I get that users prefer an uncluttered direct answer over manually scanning a puzzling web. But the entire reason that the web is so frustrating is that visitors don't want to pay for anything.