Debian is not cautious with the dependencies. Debian breaks a lot of what they ship, sometimes flagrantly like removing a whole feature, sometimes insiduously by introducing new bugs. I don't really care that Debian doesn't view it as breaking things. From my point of view, users trying to get my product get subpar experience in a way which is far from explicit.

I personally wouldn't use Debian but people are free to do whatever they want. I don't want to waste my time dealing with Debian maintainers and how they think software should work however. I advise all software developers to do the same and am vocal about it because it's easy to get guilt tripped in the idea that you should somehow support their users because they want to use your product or that introducing changes to support their esoteric targets somehow make sense because they have done the work despite the burden of futur support actually landing on you.

I want to make clear to people who decide they have no interest in it that they are not alone and it's perfectly fine.

And to be clear, I am singling Debian here because they are by far the worst offender when it comes to patching but the comment applies equaly to any distributions that apply invasive patches.