Why would there be contention in a single threaded program?
> For our use case, we in fact do not use std::shared_ptr in our implementation, but instead a single-threaded shared_ptr-like class that has no atomics (to avoid cross-core contention).
A single-threaded program will not have cross-core contention whether it uses std::atomic<> refcounts or plain integer refcounts, period. You're right that non-atomic refcounts can be anywhere from somewhat cheaper to a lot cheaper than atomic refcounts, depending on that platform. But that is orthogonal to cross-core contention.
Note that the difference is not so marginal, and the difference is not just in hardware instructions as the non-atomic operations generally allow for more optimizations by the compiler.
