> I think you're right though: MongoDB should not be used without _lots_ of research into its limitations.
That's true about any database, not just MongoDB; nothing new here.
> then you're very much at odds with (my perception of) the 10gen marketing message.
10Gen is fairly straightforward about the original issue, having blogged openly several times about their decisions - but at the end of the day, any engineer should do research beyond the simple marketer's pitch.
I won't doubt that there are people who make snap judgements about fundamental architecture based on marketing pitches[1], but that's very unfortunate, and the marketers really can't be blamed, especially when they make no effort to conceal the truth or deceive you!
[1]http://www.pinaldave.com/bimg/dilbert5.jpg