Oftentimes the circumstances are "we don't know the requirements", not because of shitty management, but because the problem is inherently hard to define.
The business conditions that do heavily penalize bad architectural decisions, like physical structural engineering, can suck to work in compared to SWE.
It takes a decade or more before you're trustworthy enough to architect a building and there's a million layers of approvals. Then it takes years before groundbreaking, and years more as the building increases in size.
Your whole life might be dominated by a single large project like Hudson Yards, which has been floating around as an idea since 1956. The most recent proposal started in 2006, broke ground in 2012, and another 6+ years to finish. Then when companies were about to move their offices there, COVID-19 happened and the leases fell through.
I'd rather the system that gives average SWEs regular opportunities to lead large projects from scratch and make mistakes.
There is a phrase "million dollar problems". You do stuff at your startup that will take a million dollars to fix because it doesn't scale.
The point is that if your startup doesn't get to that scale then it doesn't matter. If you startup does reach that scale then you have plenty of money/people to spend a million dollars fixing it.
I don’t like all the fantasy about “just talk to the customers” - nah it is not just, it is super hard to get their time.
Nope, in the same vein of "lording" over others, they become the expert of knowledge of bullshit. The environments that allow such behavior have already engrained reward of such behavior.
