No, the point is that they mostly do this publicly. The others do the same, but without the need for an audience to witness their gesture.
There are people who need help. They need food, clothing, counseling.
The people getting help don’t care about why somebody gives. They just need things and are glad when they get them.
The studies ( and they are many ) show that religious people give more.
You were trying to argue about why religious people give more, now you abruptly switch course to saying they don’t.
I will respond no more, it makes no sense to continue this discussion.