#1 and #2 are fixes for breaking that implicit trust. #1 still trusts the metadata, #2 is what I'd consider the most robust solution is that not only is it ideally trivial (just compare if a pointer is within a range, assuming zig can do that) but it doesn't rely on metadata being correct. #3 prevents the desync.
I really don't understand the code base enough to say definitively that my ways work, which is I guess what I'm really looking for feedback on. Looking at the memorypool, I think you're right that my assumption of it being a simple contiguous array was incorrect.
ETA: I think I'm actually very wrong for #2. Color me surprised that the zig memory pool allocated each item separately instead of as one big block. Feels like a waste, but I'm sure they have their reasons. That's addCapacity in memory_pool.zig