> There's a point at which these things become Good Enough though
Well sure. Like there's McDonalds and let's just not care about health or better tastes. The world keeps improving or you're left behind.
> While I prefer pnpm (to not take up my MacBook's inadequate SSD space), you can still use npm and get things done.
I haven't touched nom in a long time. No it can't get things done. I dread running it and would cancel it before I can wait for it to complete. Luckily we did get yarn, pnpm and then Bun and life is improving.
> To your point, React, while it has new updates, hasn't changed the fundamentals since
They have e.g. RSC i.e. React Server Components? See... point proven. You need to keep up. Things like Vercel force it on you.