Your account is 45 days old, and it sounds like you came to HN with many specific expectations - which we failed to meet.

Might we ask where you got those expectations? HN doesn't do much marketing, to have mislead you there. "Move fast and break things" pretty much ended in the 2010's. We've always been far politer than the current X. And karma is heavily downplayed, both by HN's UI and by the culture here.