Optics? Trump doesn't care about optics. She pissed him off by spending what he believes to be his own money without him knowing about it. It's always personal and petty with him.
Or didn't cut him in. There's infinite money for these folks. 10 billion to give to Jared for luxury redevelopment of Gaza and other slushies. Fly the FBI director wherever he wants to party. White House ballroom and tacky redecoration. Etc.