I am not the one claiming that apple does magic with memory. FYI right now I just opened monitor (M1 16GB) and sorted by memory:
1. WindowServer : 4.33GB
2. Safari pages (~10 open): ~ 5GB (monitor reports per tab)
3. Outlook: 1.45 GB
4. VS Code: 1.43 GB
5. Excel: 1.25 GB
Swap Used: 6.46GB.
Memory pressure is already orange and machine is slow.