Can't you define zero as the limit of the potential at infinity? And neutral charge bodies in empty space are generally close to that.
The interplanetary medium absolutely exists. I'm not talking about aether. I'm talking about the soup of dust, gas, and particles that fills space in the solar system. It contains a lot of charged particles, which is what keeps Earth extremely close to neutrally charged. Any deviation from neutral starts attracting positively charged particles and repelling negative, or vice versa, which equalizes the charge.
I didn't say objects repel because they're at the same potential. I said that objects at the same potential will still repel each other if that potential isn't zero.
Seriously, what is this reply? Aether? Objects repelling because they're at the same potential? You seem to have read a comment very different from what I wrote.