VS and JetBrains IDEs have very good sane defaults. They're usable out of the box. In VS I load a .sln file, or a project containing CMakeLists.txt, press F5, and I am debugging with a full-fledged data structure visualisation, CPU and heap profiling, and I can even add in time-travel debugging with a couple of clicks.

I have to manually set all of this up in Vim or Emacs, and frankly the debugging experience in GDB or LLDB is worse than it really ought to be. People actually need to use good tools to understand how nice things can be.

I think you need to try the Jetbrains debugger first - anyone who has used it would never compare it with neovim or emacs.

Try to debug a CMake file, do hot code reloading for C++, or debug release binaries with Emacs/vim.

Just three examples out of many others.