I have paid about 90K in rent now over the last 15 years and this also includes water and heat.
My friends with houses in my area pay about that much in property taxes plus heat that I pay for rent...
I pay this small amount and make 6 figures and I put the majority of my income into index funds. I am fairly sure that I am coming out way ahead of a house. Plus how do you put a value on the time sink for maintenance and upkeep? Mowing, shoveling, etc.