It's a bit unsettling to give all your financial account logins to a third party website, but I trust that a company like Intuit has decent security...
That allows me to compare my bank balance on any given day to the "expected" total.
http://static.steve.org.uk/expenses/
I've no patience for writing down every transaction, and over here in the UK there is no mint-like service I'm aware of. (Though I'd probably be unwilling to share my bank login details with a third party anyway.)
More seriously if you could explain how you'd like to see it done I'd be happy to try adding it.
As smartician suggested, Mint is great to get an overview of one's finance, but it doesn't let me visualize the above amounts.
As ragatskynet suggested, spreadsheets are the most obvious choice, and the fact that I can "complicate them to the level [I] want" should allow me to plot the above amounts as I need, but I was trying to find a more elegant way to do this than using excel.
I will be looking into the other suggestions. stevekemp's seems to be just what I need.