Go with what? The OP came to HN asking legal questions. Non-attorneys on HN have no business speculating and trying to provide legal advice to the OP. Attorneys on HN may not be licensed in the OP's jurisdiction, may not be engaged in the relevant practice areas and have obviously not been retained by the OP. They, therefore, cannot provide the OP with the type of guidance the OP would receive from an attorney with whom he has established an attorney-client relationship.
If the OP had posted "Ask HN: I think I just had a heart attack", I would hope that most of the folks here would be responsible enough to suggest that the OP go to the nearest ER or call 911 right away instead of playing the online differential diagnosis game. But legal issues that could have a material impact on someone's career and finances? Speculate away!
For heaven's sake, the most upvoted comment here, which starts with the only correct response ("find an attorney"), goes on to suggest that the OP find any attorney ("basically any will do"). Really.
I hope you see the problem now.