I'm sorry you feel that way. In our case, we get a TON of bug report traffic - many are just user questions which we'll direct to the list, some are just nice to haves, we file most of the good ones, but not always.
Though I would consider performance tuning of the user module not a bug, and I do not think the newline behavior of copying the file on the filesystem was a bug either.
A discussion on ansible-project would have been welcome after you felt we had taken the wrong track, but when we feel some requests aren't worth our time, it's because we have a huge audience to serve and are triaging everything.
We feel it would have been unfair to you to let it sit infinitely when we were unlikely to spend time on it.