I didn't--I just went with the default recommendations based on my designated interests.
I just tried searching for "dating websites" and it returned:
Modern reliquaries & New Commodore 64, Sexy beast & Ben Kingsley, Pretty Mouth And Green My Eyes & Raymond Carver
While I do like Raymond Carver, I'm not sure if I find these connections intuitive...do you suggest search terms that are more abstract?
Also out of curiosity, what did Brian Eno say? :)