My first thought is that this is dependent on implementation. It is possible to write classes in a way that aligns with intuition, but it is sometimes hard to do that, and even if you're great at OOP it is hard to do consistently. I think the Smalltalk message-sending way of thinking has huge value because it is easy to reason with, and facilitates this intuition.
That said, I do see tremendous value in FP, and I'm encouraged by the elements of FP that I've seen popping up in Swift. So I guess ultimately I do agree with you. I'd like to see OOP continue to flourish, but borrow elements from the Functional style that make it very difficult to write fragile code.
