SubmarineClub

I took a couple of comp sci courses in just before graduating undergrad (up to Data Structures and Algorithms) and have wanted to go deeper in the subject since then. Every time I try to start though, I get overwhelmed by how much there is to learn and how many resources there are for every subject.

I'll start using one resource and then read about another one that some people prefer for x,y,z reasons. e.g.

Should I do Odin Project or Full Stack Open? Learning web dev sounds neat, but which course is best?

Or, should I work through the MIT OCW or Berkeley courses? Maybe a more comprehensive, official uni curriculum would be better.

or teachyourselfcs.com?

I'm also interested in learning game dev, so should I start with Unity or come back to it after learning more theory?

etc...

I think the hard part is that I want to optimize my time, because I'm working a full-time 50-60hr/wk job, so I don't have a ton of time after work to study, but I'm too ignorant to know what I need to study, and in what order, so I just waffle.

So, people who are self-taught, how did you get past the anxiety of studying the "wrong" thing or that there are big holes your self-guided education?