It's not like the attitude of your potato peeler is influencing how you cook dinner, so why is this tool so different for you?
But I will not start peeling potatoes with the worse one.
I was able to ask Claude "hey, how many function signatures will this change" and "what would the most complex handler look like after this refactoring?" and "what would the simplest handler look like after this refactoring?"
That information helped contextualize what I was trying to intuit: is this a large job, or a small one? Is this going to make my code nicer, or not so much?
All of that info then went into the decision to do the refactoring.
Obviously the actual substance of the response matters, this is not under discussion.
But does it matter whether the LLM replies "ok, cool, this is what's going on [...]" vs "You are absolutely right! You are asking all the right questions, this is very insightful of you. Here's what we should do [...]"?
I find myself not being particularly upset by the tone thing. It seems like it really upsets some other people. Or rather, I guess I should say it may subconsciously affect me, but I haven't noticed.
I do giggle when I see "You're absolutely right" because it's a meme at this point, but I haven't considered it to be offensive or enjoyable.
Do the suggestions given by your phone's keyboard whenever you type something affect your attitude in the same way? If not, why is ChatGPT then affecting your attitude?
This effect of LLMs on humans should be obvious, regardless of how much an individual technically knows that yes, it is only a text generating machine.
I am — I grew up being bullied, and my therapists taught me that I shouldn't even let humans affect me in this way and instead should let it slide and learn to ignore it, or even channel my emotions into defiance.
Which is why I'm genuinely curious (and a bit bewildered) how people who haven't taken that path are going through life.
If my potato peeler told me "Why bother? Order pizza instead." I'd be obese.
An LLM can directly influence your willingness to pursue an idea by how it responds to it. Interest and excitement, even if simulated, is more likely to make you pursue the idea than "ok cool".
But why do you let yourself be influenced so much by others, or in this case, random filler words from mindless machines?
You should listen to your own feelings, desires, and wishes, not anything or anyone else. Try to find the motivation inside of you, try to have the conversation with yourself instead of with ChatGPT.
And if someone tells you "don't even bother", maybe show more of a fighting spirit and do it with even more energy just to prove them wrong?
(I know it's easier said than done, but my therapist once told me it's necessary to learn not to rely on external motivation)
You are trusting the model to never recommend something that you definitely should not do, or that does not serve the interests of the service provider, when you are not capable of noticing it by yourself. A different problem is whether you have provided enough information for the model to actually make that decision, or if the model will ask for more information before it begins to act.
But that's not really the right comparison.
The right comparison is your potato peeler saying (if it could talk): "ok, let's peel some stuff" vs "Owww wheee geez! That sounds fantastic! Let's peel some potatoes, you and me buddy, yes sireee! Woweeeee!" (read in a Rick & Morty's Mr Poopybutthole voice for maximum effect).
See the sibling comment regarding my motivations for this question
> It's one of the reasons so many of us are obsessed with tools.
That's answering another question I never really understood.
So you choose tools based on the vibe they give you, because you want to get into a certain mood to do certain things?
