Ask HN: Long computer routine after work. Am I overdoing it?
Important note: my family doesn’t feel neglected. In fact, they let me do it because they see I enjoy it and keep learning. Still, I wonder whether, even with their approval, I’m pushing it too far or if it’s fine.
Questions – Does anyone have a similar routine? – How do you prevent “useful” time from becoming compulsive or unproductive? – Do you have rules or rituals to balance family, offline leisure, and learning? – What signals tell you it’s time to dial back or change pace?
TL;DR: I spend most of my free time at the PC between study, side projects, and repetitive micro-tasks; I’m looking for experiences and strategies to maintain a healthy balance without taking time away from a supportive family.